It is hard to understand why people choose to convince themselves to matters which had their answers placed upfront... live in denial?
People asked and listen to opinions who only soothes their ears and nothing negative. how does that count as being honest to themselves?
By enduring the rough patches in life will only teach us and enable us to grow and learn from mistakes, no point holding to on a believe when it is non-existant.
similarly applies to friendships, when they no longer value you its time for you to let them go not because you're mad at them for not appreciating you but because they never had and never will.
As much reality hurts, those who really appreciate you wont not judge you for you are and true friends are those who'll stab you in the front....
No matter how much you know the person, you will never know their true colours until shyte happens =(
it aint worth it afterall......
